I am at 48 pounds of lost weight so far and I have never felt better in my life. People often ask me what I have done to loose such a substantial amount of weight. When I tell that that I have given up bread, pasta, cereal, sugar, etc. the first words out of their mouth are often, “Oh I could never give all that up!” This actually frustrates me. Maybe it is because I see myself as how I used to be in them. I wanted to have my grilled chicken salad and eat my chocolate cake too. But because I educated myself, I realized I couldn’t. At least not on any kind of regular or semi-regular basis. It also frustrates me because people are more beholden to their favorite foods then they are the health of their own bodies.
I finally convinced an overweight friend to just try what I am doing for two weeks. It took me at least 6 months to get him to agree to finally do this. But he fought me tooth and nail and gave me every excuse in the book as to why he couldn’t begin on a particular week. There was his birthday, or an upcoming date at a restaurant, or he already bought a couple of boxes of prepackaged, processed food that he needed to get rid of. You name the excuse, I was met with it.So now we have an actual start date. I could not be prouder of him. I will help ease him into his transition. I will grocery shop with him ahead of time and give my non-culinary friend easy meals that he can make by himself.
We don’t get easy, fast fixes in life so why do we expect them when it comes to dieting?. Why are we so committed to what we think are our favorite foods even though we know they are not good for us, but we are not committed to the health of our bodies with such loyalty? Maybe the answer is simply…addiction.
In fact the same pleasure center of our brains that respond to cocaine is the same pleasure center that responds to sugar and refined carbohydrates. A coke addict goes back for coke to get the high he experienced time and again before. So does a carb addict. We wouldn’t tell a coke addict to cut back and use the drug in moderation, but we the carb addicts, try to justify and reason why we can have just a little bread and pasta throughout the day or the week. How does the saying go? All things in moderation? Really? Can an alcoholic have just one drink? Have you ever really been able to have just one potato chip?
We owe it to those around us to be healthy and vibrant and energetic and here for along time. But more importantly, we owe it to ourselves. I have a saying that I like. Excuses only satisfy the people making them. So stop making excuses for so-called moderation and start making a commitment to to your own health.